tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-267169612943344629.post7787489554970003600..comments2023-10-19T05:42:30.319-04:00Comments on BIBI HAS THE LAST WORD: Come and Meet Mr. Whazitooya!BIBIhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13692584590115006579noreply@blogger.comBlogger32125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-267169612943344629.post-54587066470268298562009-05-06T16:21:00.000-04:002009-05-06T16:21:00.000-04:00Hi, I'm new to your blog. What a first post to re...Hi, I'm new to your blog. What a first post to read. I'm so sorry that you get a silent treatment. One of my good friends tells me the same thing. She is shut up in the house with kids and longs for adult conversation. She is faced with a "roommate" type situation with her husband. Makes me so sad for her. I'm glad you and your husband are willing to see a counselor. (For my friend, her husband refuses to go...)Aletahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05605214202876973830noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-267169612943344629.post-39781759959283752402009-05-05T20:56:00.000-04:002009-05-05T20:56:00.000-04:00Bwahahahaha!
Kelly my sis said the same thing he...Bwahahahaha! <br /><br />Kelly my sis said the same thing herself when her first love didn't work out. Haha!<br /><br />It would be nice to have another female around to talk too all the time. We women love to communicate and express our emotions.<br /><br />The hubby is beginning to learn to do so and not be so afraid of me and the consequences. :)<br /><br />Thanks for the comment and heartfelt concern!BIBIhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13692584590115006579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-267169612943344629.post-90446491176013054882009-05-05T20:52:00.000-04:002009-05-05T20:52:00.000-04:00Oh yeah Carma! Blog bling! and just in time for th...Oh yeah Carma! Blog bling! and just in time for the holidays<br /><br />Thank you girl!!BIBIhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13692584590115006579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-267169612943344629.post-44181511457038921352009-05-05T20:51:00.000-04:002009-05-05T20:51:00.000-04:00Hey Teresa!
Thank you for your comment and conce...Hey Teresa! <br /><br />Thank you for your comment and concern. I will be by your place tomorrow. I apologize for being so quiet lately.<br /><br />Hmmmm... I love giveaways! :DBIBIhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13692584590115006579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-267169612943344629.post-8659463634758365532009-05-05T20:49:00.000-04:002009-05-05T20:49:00.000-04:00Thank you Tina. You are too sweet. I will definite...Thank you Tina. You are too sweet. I will definitely be returning to my normally scheduled blogging this week.<br /><br />I will be at your blog tomorrow to get my prize.BIBIhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13692584590115006579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-267169612943344629.post-21340816143729370332009-05-05T20:46:00.000-04:002009-05-05T20:46:00.000-04:00Thank you Lilly. I do believe we have found a solu...Thank you Lilly. I do believe we have found a solution. Life is so much more complicated when you are trying to raise kids, try to keep a marriage in tact, and try to finish school.<br /><br />But enough whining, I will and can get through this.<br /><br />Thanks for the comment and concern!BIBIhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13692584590115006579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-267169612943344629.post-29628680512666642472009-05-05T20:44:00.000-04:002009-05-05T20:44:00.000-04:00Mr. Bill,
*giggle* What?!?
You are the man! Why...Mr. Bill,<br /><br />*giggle* What?!? <br /><br />You are the man! Why didn't I think of that?!?<br /><br />Bwahahahaha! Everything is alright. For now. Thanks for the advice though, and I will keep that in mind when he begins to ignore me again! :DBIBIhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13692584590115006579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-267169612943344629.post-19953864379426037692009-05-05T20:42:00.000-04:002009-05-05T20:42:00.000-04:00Thanks Rachel. Things are looking up. Slowly but s...Thanks Rachel. Things are looking up. Slowly but surely, up and up!<br /><br />Thanks for the comment!BIBIhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13692584590115006579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-267169612943344629.post-58964295279462897742009-05-05T20:41:00.000-04:002009-05-05T20:41:00.000-04:00Thank you Lucy! It has definitely been some good t...Thank you Lucy! It has definitely been some good to take a break from blogging. Now we have both found something that works for us.<br /><br />We will be vacationing this weekend with the kids. It will be stress-free. And we so need a break.<br /><br />Thanks for the comment!BIBIhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13692584590115006579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-267169612943344629.post-87342716143423616132009-05-05T20:38:00.000-04:002009-05-05T20:38:00.000-04:00Thank you Cyndi! I am working on us right now and ...Thank you Cyndi! I am working on us right now and the journal is helping and the therapy has helped loads and loads!<br /><br />I am SO working hard at not keeping it bottled inside. Thank you for the comment!BIBIhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13692584590115006579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-267169612943344629.post-88922957197032452972009-05-05T20:36:00.000-04:002009-05-05T20:36:00.000-04:00Bwahahaha! Men ARE confusing at any age. :)
And ...Bwahahaha! Men ARE confusing at any age. :) <br /><br />And they say that we are complicated!<br /><br />Thanks for the comment!BIBIhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13692584590115006579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-267169612943344629.post-34038359288441055122009-05-05T20:34:00.000-04:002009-05-05T20:34:00.000-04:00Thanks Christine. I've been quiet and really tryin...Thanks Christine. I've been quiet and really trying hard to work on the marriage gig! It's coming along. Now. I think we have found out what will work.<br /><br />Thanks for your concern and comment!BIBIhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13692584590115006579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-267169612943344629.post-84306980567678027882009-05-04T14:26:00.000-04:002009-05-04T14:26:00.000-04:00I'm so sorry girl. They don't get it! I've alway...I'm so sorry girl. They don't get it! I've always said if it doesn't work with me and BIG I'm going to be a lesbian! Who doesn't have sex... That's just not my bag. But it would be cool to have her around to talk all of the time!Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02897358252031026173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-267169612943344629.post-16452203756057154452009-05-02T19:57:00.000-04:002009-05-02T19:57:00.000-04:00Hi BIBI-
Hope everything is OK. You've been so qui...Hi BIBI-<br />Hope everything is OK. You've been so quiet. If you get a chance, I have some blog bling for you at my site :-)<br />carmaCarma Sezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01897159620671834070noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-267169612943344629.post-1243573673340438582009-05-02T15:52:00.000-04:002009-05-02T15:52:00.000-04:00My heart goes out to you...thanks for stopping by ...My heart goes out to you...thanks for stopping by my blog...so glad I stopped here today.<br /><br />I am still so new to the land of blog, but so loving reading others stories. Everyone has a story and so many of them are so touching....<br />Hope you will stop by for another visit. <br />The May give-away has started and this month there will be 10 winners. I will be blogging from Disney World soon...Teresa @ Grammy Girlfriendhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05151128140345216126noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-267169612943344629.post-38679636000976248492009-04-30T21:43:00.000-04:002009-04-30T21:43:00.000-04:00Forgot to mention that there is something on my bl...Forgot to mention that there is something on my blog for you.Tinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02180828444380011415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-267169612943344629.post-28036356372337806642009-04-30T20:14:00.000-04:002009-04-30T20:14:00.000-04:00(((Bibi))) Sorry to hear that you are going throug...(((Bibi))) Sorry to hear that you are going through a tough time right now. Keep your head up sweetie. I'm sending good thoughts your way.Tinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02180828444380011415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-267169612943344629.post-74788868772442264162009-04-29T20:16:00.000-04:002009-04-29T20:16:00.000-04:00I think Bibi, you found your answer. Hard to do at...I think Bibi, you found your answer. Hard to do at 11.30pm at night. Thats the only time you get space away from the kids and get a chance to unwnd and no doubt hubby is tired from his two jobs too and unwinds in a different way. Gosh none of the men I know are big communications either. It all sounds normal to me which doesnt help you. I think your strategy in counselling is a good one , listen to him do all the talking. Good luck and I applud the obth of you for working on your relationship!!!<br /><br />Ps. And apprently no we dont have a good sense of smell of ourselves lol!Lillyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14597193176450931002noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-267169612943344629.post-91651126976407748442009-04-29T11:34:00.000-04:002009-04-29T11:34:00.000-04:00My wife can't give me the silent treatment for mor...My wife can't give me the silent treatment for more than two days. It KILLS her to not talk. :)<br /><br />Maybe, when the kids aren't around, goad him into a fight. Push his buttons. Have a good old-fashioned shouting match. Sooner or later, he'll come around to what exactly IS bothering him. Wife uses that one on me.Mr. Billhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17248672653438111082noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-267169612943344629.post-64046359224847222572009-04-28T11:33:00.000-04:002009-04-28T11:33:00.000-04:00Sadly, some of this sounds familiar. :( Hope thi...Sadly, some of this sounds familiar. :( Hope things get better for you, BIBI.rachel...https://www.blogger.com/profile/09513121601886576274noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-267169612943344629.post-92213835688385362282009-04-27T22:09:00.000-04:002009-04-27T22:09:00.000-04:00YOu need to hang in there!! You are stressed and ...YOu need to hang in there!! You are stressed and sounds like hubby is stressed too!! Keep writing in your journal, posting and going to therapy and I hope it turns around for you soon!!!!Lucyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04579411037129623539noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-267169612943344629.post-54927324173002187222009-04-27T19:46:00.000-04:002009-04-27T19:46:00.000-04:00The good thing, as far as you go, is that you're l...The good thing, as far as you go, is that you're letting out your frustrations and hurt and not holding it inside. <br /><br />Stay strong and positive and hopefully your therapist might have some insights and helpful tips. <br /><br />I'm thinking of you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-267169612943344629.post-5683219383797347092009-04-27T19:20:00.000-04:002009-04-27T19:20:00.000-04:00Oh man, seems like he is going back to old habits ...Oh man, seems like he is going back to old habits which need to die like the stink in the bathroom. I hope that the counseling when it goes back to once a week will work better. Guys are so confusing at any age huh? :(Sheri, RNhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11854862552801644449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-267169612943344629.post-2704697813987462752009-04-27T17:35:00.000-04:002009-04-27T17:35:00.000-04:00Bibi, glad you're getting this off your chest...ha...Bibi, glad you're getting this off your chest...hard to know what to say, at least you're seeing the counselor.Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15720030744345215307noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-267169612943344629.post-76872752339080788622009-04-27T16:43:00.000-04:002009-04-27T16:43:00.000-04:00Thank You Akilah!
You have given me something to ...Thank You Akilah!<br /><br />You have given me something to think about. I will try to pull him out of it.<br /><br />And unfortunately it is like this seven days a week. For a time though we were getting better, but he just totally does not talk to me.<br /><br />I've even went so far as to unplug the TV one night in our bedroom just so that he won't come in and zone in on the TV. Didn't work. he figured that the TV worked and that I just unplugged it.<br /><br />It's even worse on the weekends when he is home. Nothing to really say to me. At all. I hate being ignored. I hope I am not overreacting!<br /><br />But I will see the therapist Wednesday. Hopefully she can snap him out of it!BIBIhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13692584590115006579noreply@blogger.com